Turn Holiday Chaos into Calm: A Date Night You’ll Both Love

The Spark (by Hunter at Show Her Off Dance).

Thoughtful Text Idea

I have no doubt you are feeling the holiday pressure with Christmas right around the corner.

Let’s try to lighten the mood, text this to your loved one (feel free to alter):

Hey baby I was just thinking about you and how we have great chemis-tree 🎄. Heehee. {suggest a relaxing date idea + why you want it}.

ie -

Hey baby I was just thinking about you and how we have great chemis-tree 🎄. Heehee. Let’s shut out the world tonight and let me spa you up so I can help melt your stress away (see date idea below). 8pm?

Date Night Idea

With Christmas right around the corner it’s a great time to plan for a ‘stop the world’ and relax together date.

This week, try to pick a night and pamper your partner with a nice in-home spa date.

If you have a bathtub, get some candles, bubble bath and music to set up a nice ambience for your partner to soak and wash away any holiday worries. Maybe a cup of hot chocolate or glass of wine to sip on too.

Alternatively (or additionally) you can give them a nice 30 minute back rub - candles, soft music are great for setting a relaxing mood here too.  There are plenty of ‘how to’ videos on Youtube if you’re not confident in your massage skills.

These are two examples to get you started, but feel free to plan out what works best for you and your partner.  

The theme/goal is “let’s spend 60 minutes together focused on relaxing and not thinking about the outside world” so whatever other ideas you may have to help bring that to life feel free to add them in! No technology allowed :)

Connecting Conversations

Sometimes a great question is all you need to start a meaningful conversation :)

This weekend, try asking your significant other:

• What are 3 reason why you feel grateful for our relationship right now?

• What do you wish we talked more about?

• How do you see yourself growing in the next 5 years?