Try This Touch Game + a Deep Question Combo

In partnership with

The Spark (by Hunter at Show Her Off Dance).

5 Minute Challenge: Favorite Touch

Here’s a simple way to turn five minutes into something spicy:

Each of you shows the other one spot you love to be touched—and how.

It might be the base of your neck. A slow stroke on the back. A thumb tracing your palm. The spot right behind your ear. Keep it rated G or go R depending on the moment. The point is presence, not performance.

Once your partner shows you their spot and style, don’t rush it. Give them a full 60–90 seconds of that exact touch. Then switch.

You’ll both walk away feeling more connected, and maybe just a little more turned on by how simple it is to make each other feel good—with almost no words at all.

Date Night In: Would You Rather?

I’ve heard from a lot of you that you love the Connection Questions.

So here’s a date night idea that turns questions like those into a game!

It’s called: “Would You Rather?”  

There are hundreds of questions you can ask that force you both into simple answers. 

They can be telling or require explanation 😉 

The best part are the conversations in between – they usually spark the most profound insight. 

Here are some sample questions: Would you rather... 

• receive a sentimental or expensive gift?  

• be loved or be in love? 

• receive a good morning or a good night text? 

• have more time or more money? 

• outlive your partner or have your partner outlive you? 

You can play the game online, clicking your answer each time, on the official website. 

You can also go offline: print out a list of questions and ask them over a tasty beverage or meal.

Connecting Conversations

“To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow—this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”
~Elizabeth Gilbert

This weekend, try asking your significant other these over coffee:

• What did you learn a little too late?

• What’s one thing on your bucket list that we can do together within the next 3 months?

• Where in your life are you making unhelpful assumptions?

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