The Bedroom Question Worth Asking Tonight

The Spark (by Hunter at Show Her Off Dance).

Text Idea: Tiny effort, Big Impact

Ever heard the term ‘home appreciation’?

As in goes up in value over time?

Let’s remind our partners they (and our relationship) have gone up in value too 🙂 

Some ideas (feel free to alter to fit your voice):

“You do so much for us behind the scenes. I see it. Especially when you [specific reference to something they did recently]. You’re the best & I love you for it.”

“You have this quiet strength I rely on more than I say. Especially the other day when you [specific example]. You’re the best & I love you”

Send one, then report back what they said

I’m Listening… What Matters Most?

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what else can I help you with via The Spark?

Not surface-level fluff, but the stuff underneath.

The magical life-giving stuff.

The stuff that will make you pumped to get out of bed everyday ready to take on life.

But alas, I cannot read your mind (yet! heehee jk).

So:

60 Second Challenge: The Love Loop

Start a timer for 60 seconds and begin complimenting each other one at at a time.

The catch is each compliment must start with the last letter of the one before. (“Sweet” → “Talented” → “Dedicated”)

Whoever breaks the loop loses. Winner gets to choose the next date night.

Connecting Conversations

“The most fruitful and natural play of the mind is conversation.”
~Michel de Montaigne

Your weekend mission: coffee, your partner, these questions:

• Who do you look up to and why?

• What 2 senses (touch, sight, smell, taste, sound) are most important to you during sex?

• What are two things I can do to better support you?

Keep The Spark Going

Enjoying The Spark?

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