One Download. Five Love Languages. 75 Ideas.

The Spark (by Hunter at Show Her Off Dance).

Turn Up the Love, Turn Down the Guesswork

Got a lil treat for ya today!

It’s a quick, no-fluff tactical guide to the 5 Love Languages — and more importantly, how to actually use them without needing big, dramatic gestures.

It’s packed with 15 surprisingly simple and powerful ideas for each of the 5 love languages.

This isn’t about writing poems or planning candlelit dinners every night (unless that’s your thing 😄). It’s about the easy small stuff — the texts, the tone of your voice, the everyday actions that quietly say “I see you. I’ve got you.” 

👇 Grab it here and let me know what you think :)

Personal Spark: What Fuels YOU?

With everything going on, it’s easy to slip into auto-pilot and end up somewhere you don’t want to be.

So here’s a quick reset:

What was your most energizing or joyful moment in the past 14 days?
When did you feel most alive?

Got it? Cool. Now ask yourself:

How can I create more of that in the next 14?

For me, it was a 2.5-hour chest & triceps lift with a buddy, followed by a killer steak dinner. It reminded me that good workouts, good food, and good friends fuel me. So I’m building more of that in.

Connecting Conversations

“If you want to be a good conversationalist, be a good listener. To be interesting, be interested.”
~Dale Carnegie

This weekend, try asking your significant other these over coffee:

• Where are we currently distracting ourselves from what’s really important?

• What should we do if our libidos become out of sync?

• What currently gets in the way of fully appreciating that you are alive today?

Keep The Spark Going

Enjoying The Spark?

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If there are specific challenges you’re wrestling with or other ideas you’d like to see discussed just reply to this email and let me know!