The Spark (by Hunter at Show Her Off Dance).
The 3-Second Memory Text
Mid-day text: "Just had a 3-second flashback to [specific moment from your relationship]. [optional: reason why you keep thinking of it]. That image will not leave my head… why do you do this to me? 😘 "
Works best with a sensory detail: what they were wearing, what they said, the look on their face, etc. If you need more specifics email me.
Date Night Idea: The 5-Senses Tasting Flight
Budget: $20
Time Invested: 45-60 minutes
When you take away sight, everything else gets louder - taste, smell, the feeling of being fed by someone you love. That's where the magic is.
Step 1: Pick your category
Choose ONE of these and grab 4-5 different versions at the store:
Chocolates (dark, milk, sea salt, caramel filled, etc.)
Cheeses (sharp cheddar, brie, goat, blue, smoked)
Hot sauces (sweet, smoky, fruity, classic, ‘oh no what did I do’)
Olive oils (or balsamic vinegars - dip with bread)
Teas, coffees or sparkling waters if you want zero-prep
Pickles, jams or honeys if you want to get weird with it
Step 2: Set the scene
Plate or pour each one and number them 1-5 (keep the labels secret)
Grab a notecard and pen for each of you
Glass of water nearby to cleanse the palate
Bring out a blindfold (or use a soft scarf)
Dim the lights, light a candle, put on some soft music
Step 3: Play
Take turns blindfolding each other. The non-blindfolded partner feeds them each sample, one at a time.
For each one, the blindfolded partner guesses:
What is it?
On a scale of 1-10, how much do they like it?
One word to describe it
Write down their answers on the notecard. Don’t reveal the labels until you’ve gone through all 5.
Then swap.
Step 4: The reveal
Pull off the blindfolds, line up the notecards next to the labels and see who guessed closest. Compare scores. Argue playfully about who has the better palate ;)
Bonus: Feed them slowly. Let them take their time with each bite. The pace is part of it.
Level it up: Add a kiss between each sample. Just a small one. See if they can still focus on the tasting ;)
Connecting Conversations
"To listen is to lean in softly with a willingness to be changed by what we hear." Mark Nepo
This weekend, try asking your significant other:
Finish the sentence: I’m proudest of you for ______.
What’s the hardest thing you’ve forgiven me for?
How do I show you I’m upset without telling you I’m upset?
The BIG bears are starting to show up in the front yard now 😅
#mountainlife
Before you go: Here are 3 ways to connect
Date Night: Conversation Gems - A ready-made date night full of laughter, connection, and zero planning.
Free Love Languages Tactical Guide - Over 40+ ideas on how to ‘speak’ your partners love language.
Date Nights: Living Room Dancing - Have a blast discovering how to dance together at home.
Keep the sparks flying,
Hunter Masters
Director of Romance
