The Spark (by Hunter at Show Her Off Dance).
Connecting Conversations
Sometimes a great question is all you need to start a meaningful conversation :)
This weekend, try asking your significant other:
What’s something you’ve changed your mind about in the last few years?
If we had more space in our life, what do you think would naturally fill it?
What’s one way we’ve made each other’s lives easier over time?
Text Idea: Giving Some Credit
Feel free to alter to fit your voice:
“Random thought: I may not say this enough, but the way you handle ______ really makes my life better. I love it and I loveeee you!”
Date Idea: Plan a Trip
Looking ahead in 2026: how about planning a trip together?
On your next date night, sit down and plan some kind of a trip. Even if you don’t have the bandwidth to go anywhere it’s still fun to just fantasize together!
It could be a romantic staycation, a short weekend getaway or an international adventure 🏖️
Now don’t just talk theoretically about it!
Ask each other insightful questions about what you like and dislike, how you prefer to travel, getting to know each other more deeply with each question.
Budget: free
Here are some questions you can ask to get started:
What region or country have you always wanted to visit? What makes it so appealing?
Where would you go again and why?
Are you a slow traveler or an itinerary-let’s-go-go-go kind of person?
If we book 1 extra special dinner out, which restaurant would it be and why?
For other meals, choose a few favourites you’ve each found online and walk through why those places are attractive to you.
What is your dream accommodation in this location? Find an example to share.
How do you want to spend your time? Look up some day trips or resort amenities.
Use the questions above to look at specific hotels, tours and beaches, and share what you both like and dislike about each one.
You’ll likely come away from this knowing much more about each other, and probably learn some things that’ll surprise you, you miiiight even book a trip! 😊
Before you go: Here are 3 ways I can help
Download Free Love Languages Tactical Guide - Over 40+ ideas on how to ‘speak’ your partners love language.
Date Night: Conversation Gems - Bring more adventure & fun into your relationship with this guided ‘connection questions’ home date night experience.
Date Nights: Living Room Dancing - Connect, laugh & have a blast discovering how to dance together at home.
Keep the spark’s flying,
Hunter Masters
Director of Romance
